Comments on model behavior: My Dating Ego

@ dan - It's so nice for me to know my posts actua...

2007-09-11T11:57:00.000-05:00

@ dan - It's so nice for me to know my posts actually help people. Thanks so much for checking out my site. You made my day.

Hopefully I'm not giving life to a post that has c...

2007-09-11T09:48:00.000-05:00

Hopefully I'm not giving life to a post that has come and gone, but this is hands down exactly what I needed to read.

On my drive to work I kept asking why I keep thinking and rehashing details of a relationship that ended over 2 months ago. "Is it ego?"

A quick google and I click this site. I'm just a single guy from Idaho and have never visited any site dedicated to modeling or fashion (if you don't count Maxim, haha), but I may have to print the original post out to read and remind myself that is indeed my ego that keeps me awake at night with rose-colored glasses looking back at a relationship that was meant to end.

I could go on and on, but won't. Thank you, all, for redirecting my insight toward the truth I know but have a difficult time accepting.

I'm totally going through this right now! I so don...

2007-08-20T07:44:00.000-05:00

I'm totally going through this right now! I so don't want to be with this guy but the fact that he seems to be phasing me out before I even got a chance...as if! Great post!

Oh yes, the ego.It's not only manifesting itself i...

2007-08-13T03:33:00.000-05:00

Oh yes, the ego.

It's not only manifesting itself in dating, but also in other areas of life.

Well, I guess you have found that out by now. LOL!

beautiful post. I am currently "on strike" so I ha...

2007-08-09T21:23:00.000-05:00

beautiful post.

I am currently "on strike" so I have nothing profound to say when it comes to dating.

Refrigerator door that is. Sheesh.

2007-08-09T17:05:00.000-05:00

Refrigerator door that is. Sheesh.

I definitely can't wait to hear about how to tame ...

2007-08-09T17:04:00.000-05:00

I definitely can't wait to hear about how to tame an ego. Straight to my refrigerator it will go!

You have to write one of those dating books - you'...

2007-08-09T14:26:00.000-05:00

You have to write one of those dating books - you'll give that he's just not into you guy a real run for his money.
Take care,
Frances

wow...i feel the exact same 'grey' pains, but i'ma...

2007-08-09T11:46:00.000-05:00

wow...i feel the exact same 'grey' pains, but i'ma guy... wonder why 'we' allow this...?...?... to happen.
maybe it's the steps needed to learn what you truly can 'live' with and not, it's kinda the no-pain no-gain theory i suppose.

hope things are looking brighter for you mz mod...they will...

The good old battle of the ego, beautifully writte...

2007-08-09T09:36:00.000-05:00

The good old battle of the ego, beautifully written. An all to familiar story.

Snaps again. I didn't laugh so hard I cried this t...

2007-08-08T15:29:00.000-05:00

Snaps again. I didn't laugh so hard I cried this time, but I did find myself nodding my head and saying things to the computer screen like, "I KNOW!" and "me too!". You have successfully captured the nature or the wild animal known as dating for 20-something year olds. We have all found ourselves in the uncomfortable position, debating why we could possibly want that which is actually the worst thing for us. Sometimes the ego does win and we get that one last moment of satisfaction, but it is always shortlived, just as superficial as the rest of the relationship, and only serves to continue a vicious cycle. You just can't win.

Great blog and stories, are you Italian or America...

2007-08-08T07:07:00.000-05:00

Great blog and stories, are you Italian or American? I guess American...once I have been with a model (German a long ago...) and I am glad it was over after 4 mounths!!!

that was the best peek into a woman's mind i think...

2007-08-07T22:32:00.000-05:00

that was the best peek into a woman's mind i think i have EVER read. you should write a field guide for men. it truly explains a lot. model behavior for president!

Yeah, def not your hips (seen 'em). Wouldn't even...

2007-08-07T15:17:00.000-05:00

Yeah, def not your hips (seen 'em). Wouldn't even give it a second thought.

And just so you know, guys go through this exact same thing, too. The smart ones do, anyway.

Anyway, who cares about that loser? You're in Greece, living it up with your lovah.

having not dated in 10 years.. it's all a mystery ...

2007-08-07T11:21:00.000-05:00

having not dated in 10 years.. it's all a mystery to me.

ahhh these men are everywhere, mascarading around ...

2007-08-07T11:07:00.000-05:00

ahhh these men are everywhere, mascarading around as normal men in their euro jeans and buying bottels at so-and-so club...it never works though...and you normally end up wondering if it was because you were too fat/thin/tall/short/smelled...but in reality it didnt work cause you gotta pass through all those guys first before you can get to the layer with the good ones on it....i mean you hang out in trendy places so you will meet trendy guys, all of which have no significant emotions....hmmm where can we find you a good guy...I know some guys, a personal trainer perhaps?...an actor?...some club promoters? wait..are they all shallow too??? DAMNIT! if I find a nice boy in the library I will let you know....until then know one thing- it def wasnt your hips